Student fatality under investigation; district attorney releases information

My thoughts and prayers go out to the victim's family and friends, and also the Gettysburg College Community as a whole.

Sean Clarke - 2007 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 11:20 AM

I cried when I read this. My heart goes out to the family of this student. When we send our precious sons and daughters away to college, we believe they are going to be safe, especially in a beautiful community like that of Gettysburg College. I will keep this family, and the Gettysburg College community, in my prayers.

Elizabeth Miller | Posted Apr 09, 2009 11:31 AM

I appreciate your quick response and openness. My prayers are with the family and Gburg community. As the father of a current student thank you for the honest communication. Sincerely, Mike Yeager

Mike Yeager - yeag | Posted Apr 09, 2009 12:39 PM

This tragedy has left me shocked and heartbroken. I don't know what to say, or how to express how I feel about this tragedy that no one would ever think would happen in a community like Gettysburg. Every year we hear about similar tragedies at other colleges across the country, but something like this happening at Gettysburg just always seemed so unfathomable. My husband, Jeremy Ross '05, and I just celebrated our first anniversary last weekend with a trip to Gettysburg. We stocked up on new Gettysburg clothes in the bookstore, visited friends who worked at the College, watched the women's rugby game, and just hung out around campus like old times. As we walked around the campus with our dog, we were struck with that strong sense of "home" that Gettysburg gives us. The last thing on our mind was that in just a few days, a tragedy like this would happen at the College, a place that is home to so many good memories for us, our friends, and our families. If there is one thing Gettysburg College does well, it is creating a community that spans continents and generations. While I face the shock of this tragedy in Charlottesville, VA, I find an odd comfort knowing that Gettysburg alumni and families, past and present, all over the world, are going through this tragedy too. My thoughts and prayers are with all of Gettysburg, and I hope that the current students know that past students like my husband and I are thinking of and praying for them.

Heather Baldwin Ross - 2004 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 12:44 PM

This is absolutely tragic; my thoughts and prayers go out to the entire campus, especially the student's family.

Amanda | Posted Apr 09, 2009 12:53 PM

This is a terrible and shocking tragedy that I can't believe happened on our campus. We in Haaland 110 offer our deepest condolences and our prayers.

Joseph J. Cook | Posted Apr 09, 2009 01:05 PM

Sending sympathy and solidarity from your friends and neighbors at Dickinson College. I know your community will rally round and support one another.

Ed Webb | Posted Apr 09, 2009 01:51 PM

This is such a horrible tragedy. My thoughts and prayers go out to the victim's family and friends as well as the entire Gettysburg community in this extremely difficult time.

Joann Sullivan - 2004 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 01:58 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with everyone at the 'Burg and their parents. I cried when I heard about it, G-burg has always been my safe haven.

Meredith - '08 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 02:03 PM

I have learned of the student's death with shock. It's so hard to swallow that a schoolmate has died in some unclear circumstances. I join the campus community, friends and relatives in mourning the deceased.

Stanford Chihuri | Posted Apr 09, 2009 02:04 PM

What a tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with the community of Gettysburg College and the victim's family.

Marjorie | Posted Apr 09, 2009 02:06 PM

My prayers are with the families of both the victim and the accused. As a parent of a current Gettysburg student I have to have faith that the college will do whatever is necessary to insure the safety of all of our kids and your students.

Don Serfass | Posted Apr 09, 2009 02:15 PM

Very sad to hear about the tragedy. My prayers and best wishes to all at the College. Stunned that something like this happened at Gettysburg. Gettysburg has a strong and talented leadership and a great student body.

Chandra Misra | Posted Apr 09, 2009 02:17 PM

I am in complete shock. I always feel so safe and secure at Gettysburg, so to think something this tragic can happen is unbelieveable. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone at the College and the victim's family.

Rachelle DeCinque - 2009 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 02:25 PM

My heart goes out to the families involved. As a faculty person, I take very seriously our charge to take care of the students entrusted to our care, and I know that all my colleagues feel the same way--from the ladies and gentlemen in the dining halls to the housekeeping staffs to the administration and other faculty members. Our community feels a tremendous loss on this terrible day.

Susan Russell | Posted Apr 09, 2009 02:29 PM

We've been saddened when such awful events have occured on other campuses, but we never expected such a tragedy at my own beloved alma mater. Our thoughts today are with the campus and the victim's family.

David and Autumn (Taylor) Yates - 2004 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 02:33 PM

Though I transferred from Gettysburg College to Villanova in January, Gettysburg has and will always have a special place in my heart. As I visited just a couple weekends ago, I immediately felt back at home and welcomed when I stepped onto campus. This is a very sad day for all those connected to the Gettysburg community. My prayers are with the family of the victim, and my family that is the Gettyburg College community.

Julianna Toland | Posted Apr 09, 2009 02:48 PM

I am in shock that such a close knit community such as Gettysburg has to suffer such a horrible tragedy! The college campus has always been a place where I felt extremly safe and secure. My heart goes out to the entire college community and the family and friends of the student victim.

Adrienne Lukowski-Long - 2002 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 02:57 PM

Just looking at how many have already posted their condolances makes me know that God is listening and we have to trust that He's on top of it. I too am saddened by this news. Our prayers are with those affected by this tragedy.

Martina Trovato - ' 08 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 02:59 PM

My eyes started to water reading this... like so many others who have posted here, this is a scenario you could never fathom happening on our campus. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Amy Sheely - 2002 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 03:06 PM

My heart goes out to the entire college community and the family and friends of both students. I remember my time at Gettysburg as a safe, happy time surrounded by my Gburg family. All Burgians, near and far, feel this loss today.

Meagan Hess - 2002 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 03:14 PM

We are greatly saddened by this tragic event, for both the victim and the accused, as well as their families. The Gettysburg College community is in our thoughts and prayers.

Joanna Dotts Askins | Posted Apr 09, 2009 03:16 PM

From Salisbury University, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Salisbury | Posted Apr 09, 2009 03:33 PM

My deepest condolences to the family of the victim.

Brendan C. Mooney - 2004 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 03:34 PM

My deepest condolences to the entire Gettysburg Community especially the victim's family. This is incredibly tragic and took me by complete surprise. I never would have imagined that this type of violence would go on at such a wonderful place like Gettysburg College.

Ryan Webster - 2004 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 03:35 PM

My thoughts and prayers go out to the families and the Gettysburg College community as a whole. The death of a student at such a close knit campus is extremeley difficult, and to have it occur in such a heinous way is even worse. The prayers of the entire Mount St. Mary's community are with you during this difficult situation.

Nicole Welch | Posted Apr 09, 2009 03:38 PM

I am a parent of a student. My heart goes out to the victim's family and the entire Gettysburg Community. May the peace of God which surpasses all understanding be of comfort to you during this tragic time yet upcoming wonderful Easter season.

Douglas V. Stoehr, Attorney At Law | Posted Apr 09, 2009 03:41 PM

It is a very sad day for the Gettysburg College Community. As a parent of a senior student, I have always felt a sense of family when we visit campus. It is always such a comfortable, safe and welcoming atmosphere. My family extends our thoughts and prayers to the families and friends who are suffering due to this terrible tragedy. God be with all of you.

Tammie Harenchar | Posted Apr 09, 2009 03:48 PM

Gettysburg College was my home for four years and I cannot imagine such an event happening on a peaceful campus. My thoughts are with the entire Gettysburg community and the family and friends of the victim. This is a sad day for Gettysburg.

Laura Turowski - 1996 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 03:51 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with the Gettysburg College community and the families of the two students involved in this tragic incident.

Amy Sanderson - 2007 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 03:54 PM

My heart and condolences go out to the victim's family and my Gettysburg Family. Gettysburg has always been "home" to me, and I hope that the campus community can rally around and support each other so that nothing like this happens again. Know that your alums are with you always.

Lina (Smith) Terjesen - 2006 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 03:55 PM

Completely at a loss. Look to one another for support and know alumni everywhere are praying for you.

Christopher M. Hrynczyszyn - 2004 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:03 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with the victim's family and the entire Gettysburg Community. I can't even begin to comprehend how the campus must feel today but I know the strength and spirt of the student body, faculty and staff. They will all lean on each other and make it though this difficult time.

Shannon Bearinger - 2000 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:07 PM

My prayers are with you Gettysburg

obi ndukwe - 2000 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:13 PM

Like the rest of the Gettyburg community, Gettysburg is my home and it breaks my heart to hear of this tragic news. My thoughts are with not only those involved, but with the entire campus. I know the Gettysburg Community will come through for those in need at this time of crisis and will show why we all love it so dearly.

Nicole Workoff - 2008 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:18 PM

The Brothers of Sigma Chi offer their deepest condolences in this difficult time: Today Gettysburg College lost a familiar face, a friend, and a committed student. My heart aches at the thought of this tragedy and my prayers and deepest condolences go out to the Victim's family. As a student at Gettysburg College it brings tears to my eyes to hear about the passing of my friend, but nonetheless the support and caring of our community of friends offer what small comfort they can. In this time of sadness I offer a small reminder: Remember, my friends, life is fragile and fleeting; but the love that fills it cannot be broken, nor put to rest. With this in mind I allow my faith to rest in the community I have come to love, and the members that give it strength.

Josiah Mellinger - 2010 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:20 PM

I am extremely sad and heartbroken to learn about this horrible tragedy. As a parent of a current Gettysburg student I know how difficult it is for this close community to make sense of such awful event, especially because we never expected it to happen at Gettysburg. The death of a student is always a tremendous loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Let's trust God will help us all through this difficult time.

Claudia D. McLaren | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:22 PM

My deepest sympathies go out to the immediate families and to a deeply saddened Gettysburg College community. I just visited this wonderful, and as so many have already pointed out seemingly safe and secure community, this past weekend as a part of the Parent Advisory Committee and as an alumnus. A tragedy like this so rocks our foundation that a place like Gettysburg helps us to learn. I am so sorry for all.

Will Agate - 1980 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:32 PM

My thoughts and prayers go out to all students, staff, and alumni - even though I've not been to campus in such a long time, it will always be like home to me. I can't believe that OUR college has to join the ranks of those others with such tragedies. Students - just know how much your alumi are with you at this time of great sorrow.

Debbie Eshbach - 1991 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:26 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with everyone in the Gettysburg College community. I was shocked and saddened to hear of this tragedy and I couldn't believe something like this could happen at a place that I called home for four years. I hope you find strength in each other to get through this heartbreaking time.

Jennifer Chesney - 2007 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:39 PM

My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to everyone on campus. Gettysburg has, and continues to have, a special place in my heart. That such a senseless tragedy has occurred in a place I have considered home saddens me, though I know that the Gettysburg community with find a way to get though.

Sarah Rozene - 2006 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:46 PM

I really don't know what to say. I am utterly shocked and saddened by this tragic incident. It is so senseless. I never could have imagined something like this happening at Gettysburg College. My thoughts and prayers are with all of the students, faculty and staff. I will especially hold the family and friends of Emily in my prayers.

Douglas Walo - 03 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:53 PM

As an alum and legacy parent, I am shocked and saddened. My thoughts and prayers go to the entire Gettysburg community and to the victim's family. My hope is that the current students will rally together, watch out for each other and love and protect one another in this difficult time.

Holly MacEwen Krafka - 1978 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:59 PM

I offer my sincere condolences to the victim's family, the family of the accused, and the whole of the Gettysburg Community.

Lurethia Sykes | Posted Apr 09, 2009 05:00 PM

It was a shock to come home from work today and hear about this tragedy on campus. Gettysburg College is like a second home to me and I never imagined something like this could happen in our great and close-knit community that I hold so dear. My thoughts are with everyone at Gettysburg College and the families involved.

Katy Fetzer - 2008 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 05:07 PM

Emily, I miss you so much.

Marla Savage | Posted Apr 09, 2009 05:11 PM

At least 2 families are damaged forever. I have been in tears off and on since I read original e-mail to parents. We all must remember our students may seem adult but are still trying to figure life out. Maybe we never figure it out. Our son is a Sophomore at Gettysburg and is 2500 miles from home, there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of him and his safety. My heart goes out to everyone, this is such an unexpected tragedy. I believe in Gettysburg College and its ability to comprehend this sad and horrid event. Prayers to all involved. There are no words to express the heartbreak.

Meridee Wiley | Posted Apr 09, 2009 05:18 PM

My thoughts and prayers to all those affected, especially the family of the victim. Stay strong, Gburg.

Mike Marrinan - 2006 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:38 PM

As the parent of a Gettysburg student, I am stunned to hear of this terrible tragedy. My heart truly aches for the families involved . Gettysburg students and staff, please know how much love is being sent to all of you from all over our country. We feel your pain. Be safe, stay strong and God bless.

Patricia Tenney | Posted Apr 09, 2009 05:23 PM

As a "townie" who has dealt with the G'burg students for years my heart goes out to the G'burg College community.

Erraeon Perry | Posted Apr 09, 2009 05:32 PM

My condolences to the family and friends of Emily. It is unfortunate that tragedy struck at Gettysburg but take strength in the fact that the community at Gettysburg will mourn, heal and get through this together.

Corinna Krauskopf - 2000 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 05:39 PM

My prayers go out to the family. Such an unnecessary tragedy.

Adam Lindemann | Posted Apr 09, 2009 05:50 PM

My deepest condolences go out to the families involved as well as to the students, faculty and staff that I love so much at Gettysburg.

Jamie Burgess - 07 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 04:24 PM

I was so sad to hear that this terrible event happened in a place and to a community that I love. I will be keeping the victim, her family, and all others affected by this tradegy in my thoughts.

Melissa (Brandis) Leonhauser - 2002 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 06:01 PM

My deepest sympathy for the family and friends of the victim as well as the entire Gettysburg community. It is difficult to make sense of such a tragedy.

Cindy Johnson | Posted Apr 09, 2009 05:18 PM

Prayers and love for healing in heaven for Emily, and on Earth for her friends and family. I hope the inexcusable taking of life shines light on other unhealthy relationships. Reach out if you see someone in need of help. Violence against women is intolerable and must end.

Olivia - 2002 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 06:28 PM

It's hard to imagine that such a horrible thing could happen at such a wonderful place. My heart goes out to the students and all of the college community and of course the family of the victim. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Joshua Miller - 2004 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 06:35 PM

It's hard to imagine that such a horrible thing could happen at such a wonderful place. My heart goes out to the students and all of the college community and of course the family of the victim. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Joshua Miller - 2004 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 06:33 PM

My prayers are with the family and the entire college... Hope things like this won't happen again... Greetings from Argentina to the community

Ali Mostafa | Posted Apr 09, 2009 06:18 PM

I ask that strength be given to the family and friends of the victim and the accused, and that they may all possess the fortitude of spirit to withstand this time of severe trial. I pray that they one day manage to find peace again in their lives. I throw my love to the infinite, and hope that it finds a place the heart of anyone in need during this difficult time. My daughter Liz passed through Gettysburg as a member of the Class of 2007. I have warm and wonderful memories of the town, the campus, the faculty and staff, and especially the students. Every member of the Gettysburg College community, past or present, will find themselves in need of deep reserves of spiritual energy in the days, and months, and years to come. I am saddened today not only for the loss of a young life cut short and for the loss of another lifetime of potential, but also for the loss of memory. One of the places in my life that has until today been a receptacle of shining recollections, has now been cracked and tarnished and cast into the shadows of trepidation. How long now until a visit, or the mere imagining of a visit, to Gettysburg College does not conjure thoughts of Ms. Silverstein and the dark emotional stain of this day's events? One year, five years, twenty years, perhaps a lifetime. I think we have all lost much more than we may yet realize.

Frank Fielder | Posted Apr 09, 2009 06:46 PM

My heart goes out to the Gettysburg College Community and the families of all involved - you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Laura Jones - 2002 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 06:49 PM

My heart goes out to the Gettysburg College Community and the families of all involved - you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Laura Jones - 2002 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 06:47 PM

The families of both students are in my prayers.

Cassandra Bialek | Posted Apr 09, 2009 06:50 PM

Emily, you ARE a beautiful, beautiful inspiration. My heart goes out to all those that you've touched. You'll never be forgotten.

Bryan Harris | Posted Apr 09, 2009 06:51 PM

I write through tears. We are deeply saddened by the events on campus. Our condolences are sent to the Silverstein family. I know that our son and the student body will receive support and guidance to help recover from this terrible tragedy.

Debbie Posmontier | Posted Apr 09, 2009 06:48 PM

Such a senseless tragedy. As a local citizen in Gettysburg the college students are always considered as one of us. My prayers go out to the families involved. Remember this is and will always be a safe town to live in.

Tom Wisotzkey | Posted Apr 09, 2009 07:03 PM

Emily was such a passionate, creative, and energetic person who gave so much to this community. She brought both her heart and mind to her work in and out of the classroom, and was someone who was deeply inspired to make the world a better place. My deepest sympathies to her family and friends. We will all miss her.

Matthew Amster | Posted Apr 09, 2009 07:21 PM

I've known Emily since high school, she's one of the sweetest, most loving girls I've ever known. I'm horrified to know that she's been taken from us. My thoughts are with the Silverstein family.

Sarah Hodge | Posted Apr 09, 2009 07:30 PM

My son attends college at Gettysburg. I am so heart broken for this girls family. This is such a shock. I pray for the family and for all of our childrens safe return home. God bless Emily and her family.

Nadine Malone | Posted Apr 09, 2009 07:30 PM

My son attends college at Gettysburg. I am so heart-broken for this girl's family. This is such a shock. I pray for the family and for all of our children's safe return home. God bless Emily and her family.

nadine malone | Posted Apr 09, 2009 07:34 PM

Emily was not only my freshman roomate, but my beloved friend. She was one of the most beautiful, caring, loving, and unique people that I have ever had the chance to meet. I still cannot believe this has happened but Emily will live on in my memories and the memories of all of those who loved her. I love you em.

Maggie Mulderrig | Posted Apr 09, 2009 07:32 PM

My thoughts are with all of the families and friends impacted by this. I recall feeling so safe at Gettysburg and cannot imagine what could have happened. I hope that the students and faculty come together and lend support to the families and that Emily Rachel Silverstein is able to rest in peace. This is just so senseless.

Linda (Chesson) Ahrens - 1991 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 07:40 PM

As a parent of two college going kids, I am really shocked. My prayers and thoughts go out to the family and everyone at the college. God Bless.

Mariette Fernandes | Posted Apr 09, 2009 08:09 PM

After hearing this terrible and unimaginable event, my thoughts and prayers are with the family and my fellow Gettysburgians.

Ashley E. Jones - 08 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 08:12 PM

Linda--and the rest of Emily's family..I am stunned and so very upset of this horrific news....I am so very sorry Linda..I could not imagine how you feel right now...My tears are with you...I just can not imagine your heartache. I am so very sorry. Jennifer Landstrom Cranbury Center

Jennifer Landstrom | Posted Apr 09, 2009 08:12 PM

I am sickened and saddened that this has happened. I wish the family of the victim all the best in this situation and my family and I will definately keep all involved in our prayers.

Jordan Douglass Henderson - 2004 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 08:12 PM

The ripple effect of this event is farther reaching than I could have imagined. It is only accelerated and amplified by the closeness of the Gettysburg community. If there is any community that can find the good, celebrate the life, and come out ahead in the face of a tragedy such as this, it's the Gettysburg community. Reading that address of 524 Carlisle St. broke my heart as that was my home for Jr. and Sr. year. May God's grace surround and comfort the victim's family and all those involved.

Nelson Dyer - 2008 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 08:19 PM

i am the mother of a beautiful sophmore daughter that attends this school...my heart sunk when she texted me what happened today. my prayers and heart are with the family's and the students affected by this... no words can express my sadness of such a tragic loss.

laura nmeredyth | Posted Apr 09, 2009 08:23 PM

From our family to all of you, Our Deepest sympathies go to everyone affected in this sad tragedy.

Angela Huss | Posted Apr 09, 2009 08:35 PM

My heart goes out to the entire Gettysburg community. I was completely shocked and saddened to learn of this tragic event in a place I consider my second home. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire College community.

Liz Borucki - 2004 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 08:36 PM

My deepest condolences and prayers go out to everyone that knew Emily... May God help us all have the strength to deal with this horrible tragedy. Rest in Peace Emily, you will always be in our hearts!

Kelli Silvestri - 2011 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 08:50 PM

Having always felt at home and safe at Gettysburg this news left me in shock. My heart goes out to the families and the whole Gettysburg community. You will all be in my thoughts.

John Perry - 2001 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 09:12 PM

My deepest sympathy goes out to both families that are involved. It is moments like these that we wish we had the power to turn back the hands of time and redirect our lives around whatever might have ignited that irrational moment through reason and empathetic, heart felt action.

Jim Griffis - 75 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 09:12 PM

I was so sorry to hear about this terrible tragedy. My heart breaks for Emily's family and friends and pray that they will find strength and solace from all of thoughts and prayers that are being sent their way. I also feel compassion for the family and friends of the young man as they must be in a terrible state of disbelief as well. I am glad that the police and distict attorney acted swiftly and that the College issued a statement to alumni as soon as it was feasible to do so. I am sad for the community that holds such a special place in my heart.

Pat Steele Nielsen - 1980 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 09:14 PM

Deeply saddened by the news. My thoughts are with her family. Hold tight to memories for comfort.

Rahul Sinha | Posted Apr 09, 2009 09:15 PM

The entire Dickinson College community extends to the Gettysburg College community our deepest sympathies at this time of tragedy, loss and sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

President Bill Durden | Posted Apr 09, 2009 09:27 PM

Emily, I miss you so much, and I love you. You changed us all for the better. My thoughts are with you, your family, and your [other, besides me] friends (and also Kevin, his family, and his friends).

Beth Morgan - 2010 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 09:40 PM

Students and faculty. Our hearts and prayers are with you during this time. May you find your hope and strength through Christ during this Easter season.

Monfort Family | Posted Apr 09, 2009 09:43 PM

My thoughts and prayers are there for the Gettysburg College community. As an Alum i know that we as a community will stay strong. I witnessed how 9-11 affected my classmates and faculty and I know that we are all strong and will stay together and help each other in coping.

Arpita Patel - 2004 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 09:45 PM

I could not believe when I read of this senseless and horrible tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with the families of all of those affected and with my beloved Gettysburg community. Rest in peace Emily.

Shelby Hockenberry - 1999 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 09:51 PM

When I recevied word of the incident which took place, it came as a complete shock. As my second home, I've had some of the best experiences anyone could as for. It hurts to know something to this degree took place on campus. May the college community take comfort in one another and find the strength in each other to get through this time. My family and I extend our deepest condolences and prayers to the college community.

Katie Myers - 2007 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 09:52 PM

"In the midst of life we are in death." English Book of Common Prayer. We hope that we will be spared from this type of event but we seldom are.

James G. Marshall | Posted Apr 09, 2009 10:07 PM

My husband (Michael Wooden, '98) and I send our deepest condolences, to the families and to the departments who taught these students. May this weekend give you some time to heal.

Darcy Daniels - 1997 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 10:08 PM

While this is truly a tragedy, and my thoughts go out to the victim, I am disturbed by the comments that somehow imply Gettysburg would be immune to domestic violence. Unfortunately, DV touches every corner and "safe" community in our world and Gettysburg is no exception. Emily's memory would be better served if we did not treat it as some kind of freak accident (blindly hoping it will never happen again), but rather as a call to action on behalf of the thousands of women who are assaulted each and every day.

Peter Trufahnestock - 1991 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 10:14 PM

My thoughts and prayers go out to the students, faculty and staff at Gettysburg College. Take comfort in each other and know that alums around the world share this loss.

Jenny (Lindstrom) Vandehey - 2005 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 10:37 PM

As a former member of the community, working for Dining Services, our students were very special to me and to hear of this tragic event happening is so unreal i couldn't believe it. to have this happen in gettysburg is a real tragedy. my heart breaks for the victims family. my prayers go out to both families and all the college staff, students and faculty.

Esther Burkholder | Posted Apr 09, 2009 10:46 PM

As a parent of a freshman and an enormous fan of the beautiful town of Gettysburg and all that it represents, my heart goes out to the families of the victim, the accused and the entire community. I have every confidence that the staff and faculty will handle this situation with the utmost of professionalism and sensitivity as they already have.

Mary Ann Lefler-Aron | Posted Apr 09, 2009 11:00 PM

One of the things I loved about Gettysburg was that it was a friendly, small-town community. Unfortunately, we live in a world where tragedies happen, but I hope that doesn't change things. It's still a lovely town and a great college. My heart goes out to the family and to the entire college.

Rick Krause - 1989 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 11:20 PM

What a horrific loss.. Although I did not know Emily, I can't even imagine why something like this would happen to someone who I'm sure was a beautiful bright young woman at Gburg. I am still in tears after reading the news. My thoughts and prayers are with the Silverstein family and friends.

Kristin Mulrane - 2006 | Posted Apr 09, 2009 11:22 PM

As we gather for Passover and Easter let us remember the messages of these holidays. We were not put here to be slaves to another. The Divine, through an unbearable sacrifice, understands loss and we are still left with unending hope. We are all connected--we are family. When one member of our family is hurt, we are all hurt. When one member of our family is in trouble, we are all in trouble. When one member of our family loses his way, we have all lost our way. And when one member of our family forgets his responsibility to honor life, we are all responsible for reminding him, and each other, the value of honoring every sentient being no matter the circumstances. We are no one without everyone. We send love to the families. With faith in my heart, and an unbearable compassion for life, I hope that we can bring ourselves to pray for the soul of this young man, whose life is forever tainted by his incomprehensibe actions. To our students...nothing we can ever teach you could prepare you for this because it is without reason, without understanding. It is sobering to lose a family member. It is scary. We can help each other by remembering that everyone reacts to loss in a different way. Let's honor all the different ways in which we mourn. Emily...you are missed and forever loved.

G'burg college Faculty member | Posted Apr 09, 2009 11:55 PM

It's hard to believe something like this has happened to one of us, and all of us. I will pray for Emily, her family, and Kevin Schaeffer's family.

Joe Swartz | Posted Apr 09, 2009 11:58 PM

I am not a parent of a Gettysburg College student, but I am a parent. Gettysburg is my home where my own kids grew up. As a Mom, I am hurting for both families involved. God be with them all in this tragic time. There is such sadness for all involved.

Cindy Murphy | Posted Apr 10, 2009 12:30 AM

My sincere and heartfelt sympathies and prayers to the family, friends, and entire college community. Such a tragedy.

Ellice Fullam - 2010 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 01:03 AM

I was utterly shocked to hear of such a tragedy in such an amazing place as Gettysburg, and my thoughts go out to the late Miss Silverstein's family & friends. I sincerely hope and pray that we will not soon be forced to deal with another tragedy like this for a long while, and hopefully never again on what are already known as sacred grounds of former battle... Everyone knows that having such a close-knit family as we at Gettysburg do with students, faculty, family & alums, if you hurt one of us, you've pained us all... We are indeed feeling the sting of that pain today, and will not soon forget it. Again, eventhough many of us are hundreds of miles away, our hearts are with you Gettysburg, and Silverstein family. ...Although you do not live on Emily, your memory most certainly forever will in both the hearts and minds of those who knew you, and even those of us who never had the pleasure in doing so. -Rest In Peace

Nick Lorenz - 2008 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 01:06 AM

Absolutely horrifying to hear about this. My thoughts and prayers are with the family of Emily and the community of Gettysburg College.

Timothy McGowan - 2007 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 01:48 AM

My deepest sympathy goes out to the family of Emily and the Gettysburg community. My husband, my son and I visited the campus yesterday. My son felt very much at home at Gettysburg and hopes to be admitted to the class of 2014. It is clear to me from these comments and from our visit that Gettysburg is a strong, caring community and a school my son would be proud to call home. My thoughts and prayers go out to Emily's family and the students, faculty and staff of Gettysburg.

Cecilia Kalish | Posted Apr 10, 2009 08:37 AM

Emily's death is such a tragic loss! May God keep all of those effected by this horrific event wrapped in His loving arms. Please help to stop the violence.

Lin | Posted Apr 10, 2009 06:32 AM

My thoughts and prayers are with the families of the victim and the alleged assailant, the students of the College and the entire College faculty, staff and alumni community. This is truly tragic turn of events for these two Gettysburg students -- two lives wasted. What a shame.

Tim Alexander | Posted Apr 10, 2009 07:57 AM

What a horrible shock and tragedy. As an alum, a large part of me is always bonded to Gettysburg because while living and studying there for four years, it was my home and my family. I know the Gettysburg College community will uplift, comfort and support one another through this grievous time because we all are so closely knit together. My prayers are with all of you and especially with the family of the deceased. I live nearby and often visit Gettysburg since I love it so. Please know the alums are here for you and that your support network reaches far and wide. God Bless and give you comfort and peace.

Julie Belle (Ridenour) Huff - 1994 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 08:52 AM

I was shocked and deeply saddened by the news of this tragedy; my sincerest prayers go out to the families of those affected. Please know you are in the thoughts of the Alumni and Gettysburg College Community at large.

Paul Accomando - 2008 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 10:20 AM

At Gettysburg we are taught the meaning and strength of the word Community. On this page alone we see an enormous outpouring of support from past and present students, parents, faculty, friends, and family. Many posts here are from people who did not know Emily personally and yet that has not deterred them from sending love, prayers and condolences. That is the true meaning of Community and it is what makes Gettysburg unique and wonderful. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Gettysburg community.

Caitlin Barbour - 2007 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 10:29 AM

As a Gettysburg native and a student at Penn State University during the 1996 sniper attack at the University, I know that time will heal your wounds. Gettysburg College students have always and will continue to be a vibrant part of this community. I know that your support of each other along with the community will help you get through this tragic event. My heart and prayers are with all of you and especially the families of the two students affected. May God Bless You.

Ryan | Posted Apr 10, 2009 10:37 AM

As the parent of a former student, I want to offer my thoughts and prayers to the entire Gettysburg community. So many lives affected by this tragic loss.

Linda Chesney | Posted Apr 10, 2009 10:44 AM

I can't believe this happened. My heart goes out to the family of Emily and the Gburg community as a whole.

Kim Wheeler | Posted Apr 10, 2009 10:46 AM

My thoughts and prayers are with the Gettysburg College community, my other home. To Emily's family and friends, my deepest sympathy in this time of need. The strongest aspect of Gettysburg College is the strong sense of community and commitment to Gettysburg, and I know that going forward, both those on campus, and alumni throughout the country are committed to helping in any way we can in this difficult time.

Kelly Barker - 2006 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 10:48 AM

My heart aches for all involved upon reading of the student death on campus yesterday. I am the parent of a prospective Gettysburg student and the safety of our children is a prime concern of mine. Among tho other colleges my child has been considering were UVM (University of Vermont) and Middlebury College. Two years ago at UVM, a female student was killed by a random assailant after she asked to borrow his cell phone. Then last year at Middlebury College, a freshman student from New Mexico disappeared during the winter, his body was found several months later in a nearby river, and it still is not really clear whether his death was an accident or a homicide. So I was thinking I wanted to be sure my child found a safe campus to attend. But here is where I agree with those commenters who point out that this is a "domestic violence" incident, not a "Gettysburg " incident. I have had the misfortune of studying several of these disturbed relational incidents close-up. What we find is that when one person develops too much dependency on emotional gratification from another person, in the same way that one might have dependency on alcohol or drugs, then if that dependency is threatened by perhaps a change or termination of the relationship, they may turn to violence out of desperation. That can happen in many life circumstances, and can take the form of violence, bullying, harrassment to suicide, etc. My point is this. I read so much sadness here about the tarnished memories of gettysburg, but this was not a Gettysburg problem. it was a relational problem. It has ruined 2 live completely, and damaged many others permanently. Life is too fragile and too precious to let this happen. As many hve said here, we need to genuinely care about and support each other. My sympathies go out to all who have been affected.

New England Parent | Posted Apr 10, 2009 10:54 AM

I am the parent of a sophomore student at Gettysburg College, and am deeply saddened and completely shocked about such a tragic loss, in such a beautiful, serene and peaceful place. We, as parents, send our children away to college for a better education, in what we believe to be a better environment and safe haven, never expecting to not see them again. This is truly a tragedy, and my thoughts and prayers go out to both families, as well as the entire college community, and my sincere condolences to the victim's family.

Angie Johnson | Posted Apr 10, 2009 11:30 AM

My thoughts and prayers go out to Emily's family, friends, and the Gettysburg College community. I was shocked and deeply saddened by the news of this tragedy. She was taken from us far too soon. May God give you the strength to lean on and support each other - the collective strength of the community will get you through this difficult and sad time. My sincerest thoughts and prayers go out to you all.

Fellow HHS Alumni | Posted Apr 10, 2009 11:30 AM

Domestic violence affects people of all ages, in all life circumstances. The community of Gettysburg has lost a wonderful student and friend, and the lives of two young people,their families and their friends have been changed forever. I am confident the College will do all it can to provide help and comfort to all in the community who are in need of solace. You all are in our prayers.

Marjorie | Posted Apr 10, 2009 09:06 AM

The Gettysburg Community and families of these children will be remembered in my thoughts and prayers. I am deeply sorry and personally touched by this tragedy.

Mrs. C. | Posted Apr 10, 2009 12:02 PM

i have spent the last month in Gettysburg and felt it was such a safe town and wonderful campus. I  was recovering from surgery and took many walks on the campus and felt very safe and welcome. My heart goes out to the family and all students. Keep your head up, kids. Have faith and remember support comes from your fellow students. God bless all of you.

david piacentine | Posted Apr 10, 2009 12:13 PM

No one ever thinks that tragedy will strike them or their loved ones. The sad truth is that it affects everyone, even on Gettysburg's beautiful, peaceful campus. I cannot imagine the grief of Emily's parents & friends. I also feel for the parents & friends of Kevin. I'm sure no one ever expected this kind of behavior from him. I greatly appreciate the immediate response of the Gettysburg Administration in notifying not only the current students but families & former students as well.

parent of a student | Posted Apr 10, 2009 01:24 PM

I am so deeply saddened to hear of this tragic loss that took place on the Gettysburg campus. As many before me have said, Gettysburg was a place that I have and will always consider home. It was always a safe place filled with so many happy memories. There is a peace knowing that the Gettysburg Community has always been such a close, supportive community and I hope that this outpouring of support will bring comfort to everyone during this difficult time. I will be keeping Emily, her family, friends and the Gettysburg community in my thoughts and prayers. God bless!

Meaghan Chaney - 2002 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 02:05 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Gettysburg community.

Adrienne (Smith) Adams - 2002 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 11:33 AM

As a parent and a parent of a Gettysburg graduate my heartfelt sympathy goes out to both families and the Gettysburg College community. To see the beginning of what should have been a bright future for these young students end so tragically is hard for anyone to comprehend. Our family's thoughts and prayers are with you.

Roberta Schatz | Posted Apr 10, 2009 02:22 PM

As the parent of a Gettysburg freshman, I say a prayer every night asking to keep my child safe, happy and to help him make good choices during his youthful years. My heart goes out to both families involved in this sad tragedy. My hope is that current students are impacted in a way that helps them to foster their own personal relationships in a healthy, respectful way. Gettysburg will remain a wonderful and special place.

Jane Blake | Posted Apr 10, 2009 02:09 PM

As the alumni director at Gettysburg, I'd like to extend my thanks for the outpouring of support, prayers, love and empathy that has been shared here by alumni, parents and friends of Gettysburg College. What makes this tragedy so shocking is that it happened within our close-knit community; what will allow us to face it and move forward through the pain is that same close-knit community, which knows no boundaries. Thanks for being part of that community, and we will all continue to be buoyed by your thoughts and prayers, which we in the alumni and parent relations office also extend to all those directly affected by yesterday's sad events. Joe Lynch '85

Joe Lynch - 1985 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 02:24 PM

I would like to offer my deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Emily Silverstein. I pray that the Gettysburg College community will come together at this most difficult time to let the healing process begin. As many have said, this is not a "Gettysburg" problem. It is a tragic and senseless domestic issue that sadly happened on a beautiful college campus cherished by many.

Christy (Tucker) Boyle - 1991 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 02:28 PM

Emily - You lived behind a shy smile that touched the lives of those you barely knew. You gave before requested, cared before understanding, and found joy when there was none.Your generosity and care are a legacy that will never be forgotten; not by this community, or this soul. You are missed, rest in peace sweetheart.

Josiah Mellinger - 2010 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 02:30 PM

I am a parent of a sophomore student at Gettysburg College. I am deeply saddened and horrified at this senseless tragedy. Gettysburg College is a beautiful community and I pray for all families involved. Take notice students, watch out for your friends, respect life and support each other. My deepest and sincerest sympathies to Emily's family.

Linda Gugert | Posted Apr 10, 2009 02:43 PM

When tragedy strikes we learn to focus on what is really important in our lives. Far too often we waste time obsessed with material possessions and social status. Instead we should worry about who we are and what we are contributing to lives of the the people we see each and every day. From what my child has told me about Emily, she was a young lady who worried more about others than herself and who brought real joy to the world around her. In my child's words Emily was "genuine." May the loss of her gentle spirit give others the strength to do good work and care for the people in their lives. My heart breaks for Emily's family and those she leaves behind on campus. You are all in my prayers. Many blessings.

Class of '11 Parent | Posted Apr 10, 2009 02:45 PM

As the mother of a college freshman, I am heartbroken to think of what the families of these two students are going through. There are no words. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Gettysburg College community.

Mary Jo McClelland Kurtz - 1982 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 03:07 PM

This was such a horrible and senseless tragedy, and Gettysburg was the last place I would have ever expected something like this to happen. I have always considered Gettysburg my home away from home and this news just shocks me to the core. My thoughts and prayers go out to the families, as well as the college community.

Erin Gaus - 2004 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 09:14 AM

I was saddended to hear the news last evening in an email from President Riggs that a Gettysburg College student had been brutally murdered and another student is accused of responsiblility. Both of these young people obviously had bright futures ahead of them, and this is a tragedy that has no positive outcome. Gettysburg College is a wonderful institution and community composed of terrific people. I spent 4 very happy years there and made friends who are like family. My heart goes out to Emily's family and friends, as well as the entire Gettysburg College community. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Molly Hoke - 1995 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 03:33 PM

i am a very close friend to emily's brother James Silverstein. I met you during Thanksgiving vacation and you were so nice and so adorable. I don't know how this could have happened to you. May you rest in peace and my sympathy to the Silverstein family and Jamey.

marco | Posted Apr 10, 2009 04:21 PM

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends of both students, as well as all Gettysburg students and the entire college community who are trying to come to grips with such a senseless tragedy. We send our sincerest condolences to Emily's family and friends.

GB parents | Posted Apr 10, 2009 03:13 PM

Linda-I have been in tears since I heard the news this morning. I cannot imagine the turmoil and saddness that comes with losing a child. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Emily, if she was any bit like you, I know she was a fabulous person, a caring individual, and a good natured soul. Everyone at Park Place Center-Genesis Healthcare are holding you all in their hearts, today and always. My condolences go out to you and your family.

Nicole Janssens | Posted Apr 10, 2009 04:21 PM

Emily was a beautiful, beautiful person and one of the most thoughtful girls I have ever met. When she attended a party I threw several months ago, she came right up to me and thanked me for having her---something that's almost unheard of at a college party. I remember thinking to myself, "This girl is incredibly thoughtful," and I think this one act represents who Emily truly was. I am in complete shock that this horrific event happened, and as a friend of both parties, my mind is still reeling that something like this could have ever happened to these two people. I don't think anyone could have ever saw it coming. My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone involved--friends and family of both parties--and I hope that as a community, we will all continue to uphold the utmost respect and love for those affected. Bless you, Emily.

Amy - 2009 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 09:30 AM

I met Emily back in 7th grade when she first came to our middle school. We played in the high school band and had classes together. I sat next to her, talked with her, and laughed with her countless times. I have always known Emily as the kindest, sweetest person. She brightened up our lives with her smile and sunny disposition. She had ambitions of changing the world for the better. She advocated peace, love, and taking care of our earth. I had so looked forward to witnessing the difference she would make in our society. I never expected her time here to be cut so short, so suddenly. My heart goes out to the Silverstein family. I love you all. You have so many friends to support you in this trying time. My love to Emily and her family.

Veronica Nicklaus | Posted Apr 10, 2009 04:50 PM

As the parent of a Gettysburg College student, I am devastated by yesterday's tragedy. I pray for the students' families and friends who are experiencing the loss of hopes, dreams, and lives well-lived. God bless you and God bless the Gettysburg College community.

Robin Havens Tate | Posted Apr 10, 2009 05:35 PM

When I heard the news this morning I was so heart broken. The first thing that came to my mind was that it was a joke. Gettysburg? No, not there. Not a place where you can leave your cell phone to hold your seat at Servo or your laptop to save your work area at the library over night and everything will still be there. I hate to ever think something like this would happen at such a safe and secure college. I loved my years there and feel so affected as if I still attended. I would just like to say that I will definitely keep everyone in the Gettysburg community (friends, alumni, and faculty) in my thoughts and prayers. I just couldn't have imagined.......

Vivian Ebhojiaye - 2007 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 06:10 PM

As an alum, I feel a deep sense of sadness for all at Gettysburg, but especially for the family & friends of this beautiful girl with the world in front of her. My prayers are with all of you.

Terri (Prince) Schlegel - 1996 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 06:13 PM

Emily, you will surely be missed on campus. This was a horrible tragedy and you will be in my prayers. I hope that your family stays strong & knows that the Gettysburg community will be here to support them through this heartbreaking time.

Emily Abramowitz - 2010 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 06:21 PM

What a terrible tragedy, all the more so during this Blessed Eastertide. We shall be praying for the parents of both students. A fellow alumnus in Christ, Jack Palmer

Jack Palmer - 1950 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 06:28 PM

My prayers are with the Silverstein family as well as the entire Gettysburg College family. What a sad day for everyone.

Susan Brandi - 1987 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 06:34 PM

As the parents of a new incoming freshman in the class of 2013, we have every confidence that Gettysburg College will be the perfect place for our daughter. We need to always remind ourselves and each other that this kind of tragedy occurs because of circumstances we may not have control over. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the families and the entire student and faculty community. How we already feel connected to all of you! We may never understand why, but perhaps that will be left for God.

Susan and Steve | Posted Apr 10, 2009 06:49 PM

My fiance (also a Gburg alum) and I were devestated when we heard this tragic news. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Emily's family and friends during this very difficult time.

Brandy Richardson - 2004 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 07:32 PM

I was so sorry to hear of the death of this young woman. This is every parent's worse nightmare. As a parent of a freshman female, I continually worry that she is making the right choices and keeping herself safe. I have to wonder if there were any signs along the way that others may have seen that could have prevented this tragedy. Hopefully the loss of Emily's life will make others look around them at their friends and the relationships they have. While this happened at Gettysburg College, it also happens in our society every day. We need to educate our young adults about the dangers of abusive relationships and how to protect themselves, as well as how to intervene when necessary. I grieve for Emily's family as well as Kevin's family. A tragedy for all.

Parent of a freshman | Posted Apr 10, 2009 07:34 PM

I send all my prayers to Gettysburg college. Its a tragedy to be heard all over especially coming from many of the alums' second home. I send my sympathy to the victims family and hope the adminstration, alums, and students form together to make this enviroment safe once again.

Jesse Jeffers - 2008 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 11:42 PM

your buddies at Dickinson send their sympathy, love, thoughts, and prayers. We will hold you all in light.

Reece Torres | Posted Apr 11, 2009 12:29 AM

We were grief strucken when we read this. Our hearts go out to the family of this student. When we send our precious sons and daughters away to college, we believe they are going to be safe, especially in a beautiful community like that of Gettysburg College. We cannot imagine the turmoil and saddness that comes with losing a child. Although we never had the pleasure of meeting Emily, she was a friend of our child. We know from her, she was a fabulous person. We will keep this family, and the Gettysburg College community, in our prayers. Purushotam / Kalpana

kalpana | Posted Apr 11, 2009 12:52 AM

The entire campus community at McDaniel College sends our sympathy, thoughts, and prayers to our friends and neighbors at Gettysburg College. May you begin to heal. Joan Develin Coley, President of McDaniel College

Joan Develin Coley | Posted Apr 10, 2009 07:44 PM

Although I have no connection to the College or to the family, I have been so deeply moved by the senseless tragedy of the loss of such a promising young life...I live in NJ, near the family's home community, and I have a son the same age as Emily....and cannot begin to fathom the unbearable pain that her family and Gettysburg community is enduring. I keep everyone affected by this terrible event in my thoughts and prayers, that time will heal their wounds....

Jill Lapin Zell | Posted Apr 11, 2009 09:29 AM

As a parent of two college-aged children, I'm just completely heart-sickened over the devastation of losing your precious daughter Emily. I'm also heart-broken for the Schaffer family. May God bless and help you find the strength to persevere. Please know that even complete strangers are shedding their own tears over your loss. Finally, I'm very impressed with the way Gettysburg College has so sensitively and honestly handled this situation. Our daughter will be a freshman in the fall and we wouldn't consider sending her anywhere else. Gettysburg continues to be a strong shining beacon.

Parent of Incoming Freshman | Posted Apr 11, 2009 10:08 AM

My thoughts and prayers are with all of the families who are indeliably affected by this tragedy Lisa Pack, Gettysburg

lisa pack | Posted Apr 11, 2009 10:17 AM

As a fairly new student at Gettysburg, it is horrible to hear of something like this happening on our campus. But the community has really begun to pull together, and the campus feels just as safe and comfortable as ever. My thoughts and prayers go out to both families and the families of all Gettysburg students as we return from break.

freshman female - 2012 | Posted Apr 11, 2009 11:31 AM

My wife Karen (Karen Davison, class of 1981) and I are deeply saddened to hear this news. Two of our three children are away at college now, and our youngest child leaves this fall. All of them are over 1000 miles away from us. Their safety and well-being are taken for granted but never guaranteed. News like this hurts to the core and reminds us how precious life is. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Gettysburg College community and the families of those involved.

Pete Rodino - 1979 | Posted Apr 11, 2009 12:18 PM

As the mother of a Gettysburg freshman, I was shocked and deeply saddened by Emily's death. My thoughts and prayers are with the families of both students and the Gettysburg College community. It is difficult to find comforting words in the wake of such a senseless tragedy. My hope is that this loss will remind us all how precious life is. May Emily rest in peace.

Laura Quarmley | Posted Apr 11, 2009 01:22 PM

I was shocked to hear of the news at Gettysburg. This is such a tragedy and my deepest condolences go out to the family of the victim. The Gettysburg College community is a strong one and I am proud to have been a part of it - I wish only the best for all of the students, alumni, and parents associated with the college.

Megan Buckley - 2007 | Posted Apr 11, 2009 01:54 PM

All of us at Goucher share the grief and shock of our friends at Gettysburg. We are thnking of you -- and of Emily, her family, and friends -- in this extremely difficult time. Sandy Ungar, president, Goucher College

Sanford Ungar | Posted Apr 11, 2009 02:31 PM

My husband and I each called Gettysburg home for 4 years. Our oldest daughter is an accepted student, planning on enrolling as a freshman this Fall, Class of 2013. Our hearts ache for the families affected by this senseless tragedy... Our prayers go out to the entire Gettysburg College community.

Koch/Barbera Alum-1983 & 1984 - 8384 | Posted Apr 11, 2009 02:36 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with both Emily's and Kevin's families, as well as the community of Gettysburg. As we are a short drive from Lancaster, PA,we visit Gettysburg often and absolutely LOVE the town-I was very shocked when I heard of this tragedy happening in such a quiet, peaceful place. May God bless everyone involved and give you strength and peace during this difficult time.

Jen Hartman | Posted Apr 11, 2009 08:33 AM

We are saddend to hear of this tragedy at the college. She had so much going for her and so much love for children and people in general, and her father stated her talent for art. This is a loss. My heart goes out to her family dearly. May God bless you and keep you strong.

sharon g | Posted Apr 11, 2009 04:39 PM

Such a tragedy, I never thought that during my four years of college that something like this could happen so close to home. My thoughts and prayers go out to Emily and her family. RIP Emily.

Johnny Quigley - 2010 | Posted Apr 11, 2009 02:36 PM

It's hard to know what to say in a time like this... but I hope that Emily's family and friends know that our entire community is grieving for her. I only hope that some good can come out of this senseless tragedy. Though our Gettysburg "bubble" has been burst, I know that we will continue to come together to get through this trying time. Rest in peace, Emily.

Amanda Nolte - 2010 | Posted Apr 11, 2009 05:53 PM

As others have said, it was shocking to hear about this tragic event. Gettysburg has taught us all the true meaning of community, as is evidenced by these posts. May love and hope surround everyone affected and the entire Gettysburg College community during this difficult time.

Laura Orsini - 2007 | Posted Apr 11, 2009 06:02 PM

As a parent of a student, the death of a  student is always a tremendous loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Let's trust GOD will help us all through this this difficult time. My prayers are with you, Gettysburg. My deepest condolences to the family of the victim. Krishna Aryal (NEPAL)

Krishna Aryal | Posted Apr 12, 2009 01:11 AM

Our hearts go out to Emily's family, friends and to the Gettysburg College community. A young lady of conscience who has brightened the lives of so many by considering the needs of others truly represents the ideals and aspirations of Gettysburg College.

George Schimpf - 1973 | Posted Apr 11, 2009 10:22 PM

It is very uplifting and encouraging to read all these outpourings of sympathy. As a resident of Emily's hometown here in Roosevelt N.J. and a long-time friend of the family, I want to assure you that these comments are read and appreciated! I firmly believe that Em was an "old soul," that is, one who was far wiser than her age indicated. Although Em embraced non-violence, she was a fierce warrior in the fight against injustice. But even old souls need nurturing and that is where we need to thank Linda, Bob, and Jamie for the gift they gave the world in their beautiful daughter/sister. They can't control what the world does with that gift, they can only give the gift and these 3 gentle souls gave this gift beautifully. Their grief is unfathomable and their only reward is the knowledge that they helped intimately shape this vibrant flame that was Emily Rachael Silverstein. If everyone would commit just one act of compassion that they otherwise wouldn't have undertaken, it would be the surest way I know of to keep that flame alive.

bob dermody | Posted Apr 12, 2009 10:49 AM

To Emily's family - As the mother of two college aged children (one son at G-burg) and a third yet to leave for college in the Fall, I am devastated for you and all those who love Emily. Every day, we worry constantly about their well-being and whether we've taught them the right things. I feel so unworthy almost as a parent, reading of your wonderful daughter, Emily. My goodness, what a fantastic job you have done of raising up such a fine young lady. Somehow, some way, some day, I pray that you will bask in the glory of who she was and not let go of your ideals because of this inhuman injustice. I pray that you will find peace knowing that she is not in pain now but happily watching over you, praying for all to continue her missions for peace. I pray for your suffering to ease someday. There are just no words. Know that many in the world will never ever forget your wonderful child, and are praying for you. May your baby forever rest in peace. And to Gettysburg - you will continue to be a wonderful college and your words and care for the family and the students will not go unappreciated.

Monique Kovach | Posted Apr 12, 2009 05:42 PM

When I woke up and saw this on the news, I was devastated. I saw her around town sometimes and just knowing how brutally she was murdered ate my heart and it still is today 3 days later. I can't get over this. She was such a nice girl, so innocent. Why would anyone do something like this to anyone? Wow. R.I.P. I just can't believe this happend. We don't usually have this kind of stuff in Gettysburg, and I hope we dont start getting it either. I wish all my condolences to the family. This was a horrific tradgedy for a beautiful young girl. At least she's in a better safer place where she can be who she always wanted to be and become. R.I.P Emily Rachel Silverstein. Even though i didn't know you personally, you're always a friend to me. And to the family, you're in my prayers. God bless you.

Brittany Smith | Posted Apr 12, 2009 07:02 PM

On behalf of all of the members of the Lebanon Valley College Community, let me express my sadness at this terrible tragedy and extend my sympathies to all the members of the Gettysburg College community.

President Stephen MacDonald | Posted Apr 12, 2009 03:19 PM

I am deeply saddened and disturbed that such a horrific tradegy could occur on our beloved campus. My thoughts and prayers go out to the families involved, as well as to the entire college community.

Kristen Leatherbee - '07 | Posted Apr 12, 2009 07:33 PM

Since the morning of April 9, I have been trying to make sense of what has happened here. I've been following the local media and watching the poignant and touching postings on the Gettysburg condolence site -- I didn't know Emily personally, but I'm a G-burg alum who now lives just a couple of miles up the road from where this horrific tragedy took place. Even with most students away for the holiday break, we have watched the makeshift shrine to Emily growing in front of Peace House, her on-campus residence, throughout the four-day weekend. As the majority of the campus community returns to our grieving town tomorrow, I pray that they can take comfort in each other, provide support through love and prayers to the family and friends who are undoubtedly devastated, and never forget the common thread that is clearly woven through these postings. Make compassion, empathy and "others before self" a part of your life, and this will be your personal tribute to Emily. I never knew her, and yet I will never forget her. Rest in peace, dear girl.

Kelly Woods Lynch - 1982 | Posted Apr 12, 2009 08:47 PM

Dear Linda, It was just the other day that you showed me the picture of your lovely daughter. The obvious love and adoration you feel for Emily warmed my heart. I know I can speak for all of your co-workers at Cranbury Center and say that we are all devastated by your tragic loss. I never met Emily, but with you as her mother I know she is an exceptional person whose presence on this earth will surely be missed. My thoughts and prayers, and those of your friends at Cranbury are with you.

Scott Egbert Cranbury Center | Posted Apr 10, 2009 09:38 AM

So sorry to hear of this tragedy. Kind thoughts and wishes to the families most affected and for the healing of the community.

Drew Talbot - 1981 | Posted Apr 13, 2009 09:59 AM

As parents of a junior daughter, our thoughts and prayers are with the Silverstein and Schaeffer families. We wish you peace, strength and energy in the days ahead. We hope many of you were able to share time with your families and friends over the holiday weekend and that upon returning to Gettysburg, you continue to feel the comfort and community that is the essence of Gettyburg College.

Eileen and Jim Pagano | Posted Apr 12, 2009 11:02 PM

I was shocked, heartbroken and deeply disturbed when I heard of this tragedy. Gettysburg was my home for four years, and never a place where danger was something I ever felt. Emily's life was taken away from her in an apartment where many great memories for a lot of people probably happened...and now we will remember the memory of a beautiful life another decided was his to take. It is not fair...I am sorry for this family, and my heart goes out to you. Gettysburg is a wonderful place, and I know this school is coming together more than ever right now...there is simply no other way they would do things.

Liz Fox - 2004 | Posted Apr 12, 2009 08:51 PM

My heart and prayers go out to the Silverstein Family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Rebecca (Layton) Kern - 1998 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 03:16 PM

I am blessed to be a part of the Gettysburg College community and feel lucky to have the opportunity to teach here. My heart is aching for all the families affected by this tragedy, and that includes the many sons and daughters who attend this college and those who are employed here, for we are a family too. Reach out to one another in sorrow and support each other with grace.

Linda Fiscus | Posted Apr 12, 2009 08:51 PM

With deepest sympathy and sincere prayers... ...that this dear, sweet girl may rest in peace. ...that her family and friends may mourn and begin to heal. ...that the entire Gettysburg community can endure this tragedy with continued grace and professionalism. ...that the accused is repentant. ...that this be the last horror to descend upon our serene campus. ...that we diligently work to heighten the awareness and prevention of domestic violence.

Juliet Dunham - 2001 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 09:51 AM

When word of this event first reached me in England I was shocked. Now, days later, I can say that this feeling has not subsided. I lived and studied in Gettysburg for many years and it saddens me to think that a community so devastated by death and strife through the contest of the American Civil War has yet to endure further heartache. My sympathy and the sympathy of my fellow postgraduates at Oxford University goes out to the families torn asunder by this tragedy and to the entire community of Gettysburg College. My heart is so heavy with sorrow.

Brandon Richard Roos - 2008 | Posted Apr 12, 2009 09:21 PM

It's hard to believe such a terrible thing could ever happen on our campus! My thoughts and prayers are with the Gettysburg community!

Kerry Darling - 2002 | Posted Apr 10, 2009 09:54 AM

My deepest sympathies go out to both the Gettysburg community and the family and friends of Emily. The loss of such a promising life is so incredibly sad.

Miranda Hester - 2005 | Posted Apr 13, 2009 04:29 PM

My heart and prayers go out to the affected families during their time of grief. As a sophomore at Gettysburg College it is difficult to swallow the shocking events that have taken place on April 9,2009; yet I have trust that as a community we will grow stronger together in memory of Emily. We will miss you Emily!

Dominique Destiny Caple | Posted Apr 13, 2009 08:21 PM